My brother: "Why is it so hard to understand women?" (Rambling)
Me: "Because men like you have not paid enough attention..."
My brother: "Wait, what do you mean? I don't understand."
Me: "..." (Thinking; Here you go again.)
Every time when my brother has a fight with his girlfriend, he will come to me and ask for some comments. I always try my best to give the best solutions for him, but some times it is just a tiring work. Naturally, women tend to be more sensitive than men and that makes men see women as being "emotional." And when there's a problem occur between them, some men may end up with a question of "why is it so hard to understand women?"
There can be many possible answers for the question. For me, set aside the idea of women as a naturally sensitive human being and drop down gender issue, to understand a woman or anyone is a question of giving attention and neglect. I believe that if one pays attention to others enough, be more considered, and be calm, then that should create understanding for both of the party.
Listening and patience are a key to learn more about others and to understand them. I don't think there is anything too hard to understand. If you take time and intend to understand, your effort would pay well and will result in a good relationship.
I agree with P’Som that women are more sensitive than men. Some men just neglect their girlfriends, but some want to deal with the problems and they find out it is hard to understand. For me, some men do not pay attention enough because they think that it’s just a little thing or if they reconcile their girls, girls can forget easily.
ReplyDeleteStepping back and looking at the problems are the ways when I do not understand someone. Then I listen and have patience. Patience is a key for everything.
Me as a girl, sometimes I really don't understand myself. -_-
ReplyDeleteNot only men have problem with women but also women and women too!!! So just let it be and move on.
For me, I think that men can also be sensitive . In contrast, it is hard to understand men also but women are thoughtful and pay more attention toward men I think. So, there is not a problem that women do not understand men or blaming men that men are hard to understand.
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